Back to Resources

    Veteran Forward HQ Resources

    Estate Planning Checklist

    Protect your legacy and ensure your final orders are carried out exactly as you intend.

    Section 1 — Core Estate Documents

    These are the legal instruments that speak for you when you cannot. Check the status of each and record where the original is kept.

    DocumentStatus (Done / In Progress)Location of OriginalAttorney / Service Used
    Will
    Living Trust (if applicable)
    Durable Power of Attorney
    Healthcare Power of Attorney
    Living Will (Advance Directive)
    HIPAA Release
    Legacy Letter / Final Instructions

    Section 2 — Digital Estate Plan

    In the modern age, your 'possessions' include digital accounts, photos, and social media. Without a plan, your family could be locked out of these forever.

    e.g., 1Password, Bitwarden
    e.g., Memorialize or Delete

    Section 3 — Beneficiary Audit Master List

    List every account that has a beneficiary designation. This serves as a master audit to ensure everything is aligned.

    Account TypeInstitutionPrimary BeneficiaryDate Last Checked
    TSP / 401(k)
    IRAs (Roth/Traditional)
    Life Insurance (All policies)
    Bank Accounts (POD/ITF)
    Brokerage Accounts

    Section 4 — The Locked Out Family

    Captain Miller was meticulous with his physical paperwork, but he kept all his financial life in his head and on his password-protected laptop. When he passed unexpectedly, his wife realized she didn't have the login to their primary mortgage-paying account.

    It took six months of legal battles, death certificate submissions, and stressful phone calls just to get access to pay the bills. 'I knew where the money was,' she said, 'but I couldn't touch it. It was like watching a life raft drift away while I was drowning.'

    Miller's family finally got access, but the stress added a layer of trauma to their grief that could have been avoided with a simple digital estate plan. 'Tell your family the passwords,' or better yet, use a password manager with emergency access.

    Veteran Forward HQ

    Estate planning laws vary by state. This checklist is not legal advice. Consult with a qualified estate planning attorney. | © Veteran Forward HQ — Tools for the mission ahead.